Arrrrgh! Why does he keep whining to me about his miserable life?! He chose this life!!!
Why do I care?
Should I ignore him?
Ignore any emails that don't have to do with the kids.
If he gets testy, point out exactly what you said -- you're wiling to work on the R, but he's choosing to leave, so he has to figure out how to deal with his life on his own.
He's not going to email 19 times a day after the divorce, is he?
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement