Motherof3

The kids have been told that H & I are having a hard time being married to each other right now, and that it has nothing to do with them. And that dad is not living here for now, until he can figure out what he wants. When the kids ask him when he is coming home, he replies with “I don’t know”

I think I am ready for him to be at home, and to not let that have anything to do with our R for the time being. I’m pretty sure his answer will be “no”, and I think I’m preprared for that. But I’m not sure what I should suggest as another solution if he does say no. Maybe suggest he come to the house every other night to help with kids and to clean-up the house?


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10