If you take the bait again, tell them you wish them well, they deserve each other. Move on and say nothing else....what else is there to say?
Seriously consider moving. If you can't draw and keep strong boundaries, then how else are you going to have a normal life? Moving actually seems easier for you to me. Focus on what you CAN do, and not on what is hard or getting in your way or how you "have to" stay stuck...protect your kids from this insanity. And be grateful, grateful--that you now see him clearly for who and what he is. Thank GOD...
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
