One bonus-female at the game smiled at me! Not sure of intent, but it seemed genuine.
Don't worry about the intent. Take it for what it is.
And PDT is absolutely right -- there will be triggers that will sneak up on you. And they suck.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement