oc: How are you? What's been going on? Sounds like we have some catching up to do. Sorry to hear things are not back to 100% yet (not that any M is ever 100%...).
Feels like the universe is trying to tell me to move on. After first hearing about ex-ow working for H in his office, I've just been informed that H is in love again. He met up with a girl while he was away. Someone he had met before when she was in town visiting, but who lives in the country he was visiting. From what he told friend, she sounds like a decent girl. Apparently, he's still at the courting stage and nothing has happened between them other than them spending lots of time together. Knowing H, he is calling her day and night, and offering to fly her here. It's very new, not to mention long distance, so who knows what will happen, but H sounds very serious about her.
Explains why H seems more distant again. Am actually glad that he still has to deal with ex-ow in the office. What a mess he's gotten himself in to. And foolish me, here I was, thinking H was turning a corner.
The information is still fresh, so I haven't had a chance to let it sink in and process what this means for me, if anything. I had decided to meet with that guy before I knew about any of what H was up to, so I will definitely proceed with that. As far as proceeding with the D, H had said that he will be the one to take care of filing, so I think I will give him some more time, but will email him some of my terms in the meantime. What do you guys think?
Can't say that hearing about this new girl really hurts all that much. According to H, she's very different from anyone he's ever been with. She's young (30), but where she's from, she's considered old to not be married. My guess is that she's desperate to get married and undoubtedly, wants kids. I feel sorry for her as I'm sure that H has already told her lies. If she does turn out to be the one H decides to spend the rest of his life with, it may all be new to her, but none of the process will be new to him.
Not much use in thinking about it. I'm not very confident it will work out with her anyway. Friends of mine are very excited for me and possibility of me dating new guy, but I feel like I can already see the end before it's begun. Will definitely enjoy the moment while I can, but I'm so trained to have no expectations at this point.
