What to do when H doesn't contact?

[dday101798]

Ok GF, I got to get a little blunt here for sec...

Do you think you're the only one that has had a bunch a lies told about them with all this?

No.

That is most the reason why W's family doesn't do gatherings anymore, all the crap and filth that was cast about.

And honestly, for my FIL to allow her to move into HIS house, with OM, AFTER he had clearly said she could not live in our house with any male in any shape or form until we were divorced? There had to be some really good stories there. Some of which my FIL verified with me, some not. A lot of what he did question were fish stories. Yeah, the event or accusation happened, but was all blown out of proportion.

Let his family believe what they want to believe. They know him well enough to eventually if not already know that it's horsesh!t. Shame on them for not being concerned of the kids, that is hteir own ignorance to deal with. But, common result of a family in peril is his family wants nothing to do with it or conflict with you, much the same as yours to him. They'll side with him, and yours will side with you. That's family for ya.