I am doing better when it comes to dealing with my emotions about the OM and the D. It is what it is.
I am still however, having a lot of heartburn when it comes to the kids intro with the OM. My W and him have been seeing each other for 6 months and every indication is they are the real deal. She has already introduced him to her family so I am wondering why she is delaying the intro to the kids. Is she doing it to protect them, which seems contrary to her actions, or is she waiting for the D to be offical in case I have a negative reaction to the into and stop being Mr. Nice Guy.
From what I can gather, these type of intros happen pretty fast but I have little insight as to what my W is thinking, and there is no way I am going to ask her.
A womans perspective would be great but I will take any input at this point.
