Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[TrentC]

Here's the deal: during the game, they were playing hip-hop songs that I know are played in clubs my W goes to, and I started seeing bad things in my head again.

That's going to happen a lot. Not much you can do about it; there will always be things that remind you of your wife, even long after the divorce.

And like you said, you just need to pick up and move on when you can.