IMO, I'd be more concerned about how your D13 is being affected by this, than anything else. If it were me, I'd take the focus off of W and your M/R, and help this little girl/almost a young woman deal with the fact that her mom has admitted sexual activity with multiple men, while being married to her Dad.
And, you need to protect her from that kind of talk.
And, you need to protect her from seeing stuff on your computers that SHOW this kind of activity to her.
I'm sorry, but I have a D18, and I know what D13' evolve to.
I know you're doing your best, and I give you a ton of credit, but protect those kids from their Mom's lifestyle FIRST. Deal w/you and your wife once you get that under control.
Good Luck today. I like your speech!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
