Yes GW, you should definitely look into the cologne.... if it is something you wouldn't have done before it will definitely create mystery! Maybe get a few new clothes, get your hair cut etc. Take some time in the next few days if you have child care and do something just for you that you usually don't take the time to do. Is there a hobby or a personal interest you don't do anymore? Or maybe even go to a movie by yourself or sit in a book store by yourself and look at books about an area of personal interest for yourself.
I agree with the approach Sandi is suggesting about contact while she is away... you have an opportunity here to feel more in control of the situation and gather up some personal strength to use when she returns.
Maybe get a few new clothes, get your hair cut etc. Take some time in the next few days if you have child care and do something just for you that you usually don't take the time to do. Is there a hobby or a personal interest you don't do anymore? Or maybe even go to a movie by yourself or sit in a book store by yourself and look at books about an area of personal interest for yourself. 
