from my friend smw..not sure what verse "Give your burdens to the Lord, he will take care of you. He will not permit the godly to slip and fall"
Pat, that was a nice post you sent. remember, we are all here for a reason. yes Luv is a wonderful person, beautiful person, and she doesn't deserve the crap treatment, but the fall of a M comes from both people. We all must look deeply within ourselves because we are ALL sinners. We all hurt those we love, because we are imperfect. So although it is wrong for H to do what he is doing, we must still have that empathy (if that's the right word, I get them mixed up) for the WAS because they are also hurting, and us LBSers have done some of that hurt, and that is the reason for change.
This is one of the most humbling experiences I have ever had to face, but when I was able to reflect on the little things I had done, my work went that much faster. We can ALL become better people, and that's what our goal needs to be, and part of that is figuring out what part of the failure of the M we could have been a part of, and the result of this is AMAZING!!! I have lived it!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
