Do keep positive man, co-parenting will ensure that you have a lot of contact with W far into the future, whether still married, divorced, etc. Blessing and curse I guess. It's different for those of us without kids involved. I can cut off all contact from my W if I need to, you'll never be able to. Sometimes I definitely wish we'd had kids.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK