Are we saying that she is incapable of being their mother?
Or are we just giving in to an adult women's temper tantrums, "I don't want to do this, I just want to have fun, fun, fun!!!"
Basically, yes, I am saying that. I'm saying this because I believe it is in the children's best interests to be with SP more than they are with their mother, who I believe -- for the record -- is the "loon" option.
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Are you going to tell your kids that "mommy doesn't love you enough to want to spend time with you, mommy doesn't want you living with her, mommy is too busy for you, etc."
No, that would be MrsSP "telling" them that -- by her actions. And SP doesn't get to control those.
Rob, your whole argument can basically be boiled down to "don't let her get away with this crap behavior," and as you know, I normally agree with that and it was my default position here. But there are, simply, some times when there is an overriding factor, and "What's Best for The Kids" is inarguably one such factor.
