Divorced and want to reconcile...

[dday101798]

Oh, that kind of sheds a new light on his stance then.

I guess the question is how much do you in fact want to be back with him?

If as much as I get from what you say then might I suggest as I've been, ride it out at his pace. No more R talk. Be his friend, have fun together just hanging out. Someday I'd be willing bet it will come down to you're there and single, and he's there and single and he just may say 'what the heck, let's bring this to another level' afterall.