I'm dealing with the same thing with my W talking to the OM because she thinks they can still be friends. He took my kids for a snowmobile ride on Sunday, and then my daughter wrote about it in her schoolwork. I saw it when I was going thru her backpack. I gave it to my W and said she can have it. She just laughed it off. I was furious. But then I wrote a comment on fb about bad person vs good person making bad choices and she defriended and blocked me this morning. I let the contact get to me instead of letting it slide off my back, now we've taken a few steps back. So I can totally understand how hard it is to not be bitter and angry. So difficult with children.
M 32 WAW 34 D - 5 S - 4 PA 1/09 Moved out 3/09 She filed 5/09 90 Day Postponement 11/09 State Dismissed case 4/10 Moved home 9/10