Looking for help with WAW

[thegoodfight]

If she wants to go let her go! Validation if she doesn't don't push! Again you can only control you, she can do as she pleases! Keep that mindset, you will act, she will react! You will act in spite of her actions, she will try to get a reaction, you will not bite on the bait.

That is the danger, you have to just listen and not retort in counseling, let the counsoler defend whatever, you listen, validate, share your feelings! If you can do that with out back peddling, do it! If you can't my advice, go by yourself until you can handle it! Be prepared for the worst and hope for the best!