Went to my IC/MC yesterday. W has given up on IC for the moment. I am not surprised and it almost seems like script. She didn't get the validation for her D from the C so she doesn't want to hear anything else that is being said.
The interesting thing that came out of IC is we were talking about why I got married 26 years ago and the IC said that because I never was able to "fix" my mother and her bipolar issues that I subconsciously (sp) married someone else who needed to be fixed, to see if I could get it right! WOW! I seemed to succeed with my D23 but have failed with my W. I have to get back to this mirror because it is going to take some intense thought on my part on what I have to fix about myself. I guess at this point I don't see it but I do think the C is not wrong. I questioned her about it and she just said that it was not a conscious thing.
There was some other issues about independence and love but I will get into that on another post.
