BBJ..I see you as quite normal...

until you separate out the emotional side of this and the business side of this then I think you will continue to "spin" occasionally...

bottom line..until Dan decides to come back you can "want, wish, hope" till the cows come home..he has never shown any concrete actions that he does not want a Divorce..I personally believe he's such a weak little boy that there would be no way that he could ever go file on his own..my god..he's so weak he can't even sign the papers that have been presented to him..

Truly..I can't figure out why you want him...from what you have said and described..he's a serial adulterer....and his continued I'm in, I'm out, almost borders on abuse..psycological anyway..it's cruel

Last edited by M from Tennessee; 01/13/10 11:51 AM.