You right that we need to have closure in that it will give me insight to why she needs it (insert listen, validating) and also allow her to come past the garbage of the old portion of our M.
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Can you see any benefit of going back? If not for yourself then for her? Once she has that off her chest, can you say, "ok, let's take the lessons learned and do better now"? How do you think she would take this?
I can see the benefit of going back for us. It will allow me more opportunity to listen and validate and she will be relieved that she can start to let go of it.
Thanks,
Will
"The first step in the acquisition of wisdom is silence, the second listening, the third memory, the fourth practice, the fifth teaching others." Solomon Ibn Gabriol
