I'm so sorry you find yourself in this situation. I'm fairly new, and am having a hard time staying focused, so I don’t have much advice to give. The more experienced DB’sters will be here soon, hang in there. There are so many people here to help and give great advice, hang in there this is the worst rollercoaster ride ever. However, knowing you are not alone will help.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10