Originally Posted By: Dane
This is the 2X4 that had to hit me several times.
Your wife is gone as you knew her, the only chance you have is to DB. [/qoute]

I agree, the W I had is gone...its just hard saying good bye to someone you loved.

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Remember it is ultimately for you, not her, and it is only over when you want it to be over.
I am experiencing very similar things, nothing is logical. So, I quit trying to apply it.

YOU WILL BE OK, YOU WILL MAKE IT. Tell yourself this over and over, and believe it.


That's why I'm continuing my self improvements,,, for me and my kids. It really requires a "rewiring" of your thought processes to understand the nuances of the WAW and how they apply their "logic" in their thought process.

I consider myself a very logical, intelligent and pragmatic person,,, and this confuses the heck out of me (cheeseless tunnels)...


DD

H50
W44
M17 yrs
S15
D11
D10
Bomb 4/09
Trial separation/moved out 9/09
Moved back in 12/29/09