Also, I left everything to be with him. Family, friends, kids school, and moved 100 miles away to be with him. He always acted so charming and sweet. But I also feel he has controling personality. In an argument for the smallest thing you can imagine, he makes me feel like I am the worst person in the world. He asked me to stop working and wanted full control of the finances, so I did it for the sake of not arguing. He didn't like it when I would go visit family, this is why I think my visit to my brothers house made him so angry. He cries and acts very hurt if I don't do as he wants. He tells me I'm so mean and that I'm the most angry person he's ever met.
Sometimes I think I have problem because he told me I probably have PTSD and that's why I don't understand him. I had a bad marriage in the past. But my ex and I talk because of our kids. He hates the fact that my kids are still envolved with their dad. But their dad loves them and will always be there for them.
I'm very confussed. He doesn't call or email or text. He screams at me over the phone if I call him. He insults me and calls me names. I tell him not to do that, that I don't deserve it. He tells me he wouldn't do it if I would respect his wishes of giving him space. He's probably right and I'm being too pushy.
