Mixed Signals or is this Limbo Land

[Kemper]

I read your thread here and jumped over to your newcomers thread as well. I just wanted to let you know that I am going down the path that you are about to embark on. While I think the situation sucks I think you are doing the best thing for yourself and your children at this point.

I also agree with dwinter82 that this is a difficult thing to do and you need to stick by it for some time. I am honestly hoping that by taking the action I am taking that my W will wake up, regret her decisions and want to try and work on the R/M. However, I will not sit by and wait for that in the event it doesn't happen.

If my W decides she wants to work on the R/M there will be disclosures on her part, then boundaries and ultimately a decision on my part of if I want to be with her after hearing her out. While I said I am hoping for her to wake up and I would like to be with my W in a R/M, I don't NEED to be with her.

I wish you best of luck tomorrow.

By the way are you in or around the "Queen City"?