Hi Deep! I am honored that you are here. I have read thru some of your sitch and advice you have given others! Congrats on your success!

Unfortunately, I did not set any boundaries while H was still here and am feeling that it is too late now. I let him cake eat. He told my DIL that he thought it was over! That is the first he has said that. It is getting to me. What I cannot accept is the fact that he has not stated any other reason at all that he wants to end this marraige other than there is OW that he thinks he is in love with.

Yes, I do need to work on my confidence...I have come a long way but know I still have a long way to go! Please keep checking on me...I am so ready to listen!!!

M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing