In your own words, you're getting emotional. Not the best time to make decisions or take action then.

Calm down. You're gathering ammo for a "Shock and Awe" approach if I read you right. Why shoot a flare up now when you haven't got all your big guns lined up yet?

Me 42
W 39
Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992
First Bomb: Sep 2007
Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007
Kids: D10, S5
Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak.
3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.