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[Deep]

SD, it depends on what your intentions are.

We're all human, so I'm not knocking it, but getting validation of your worth / value / attractiveness outside your M and from someone else may not be the best path to go. Working on yourself, self-belief, self-esteem, self-worth may be the better path. That's part of detaching.

Having said that, heck, "going gucci" for a bit of harmless fun could be well ... fun! And very empowering. But there's a thin line you walk sometimes, and it's way too easy to fall off sometimes. Trust me on that one.