Where I am right now prevents any contact, but I see what you are saying. One of my co-workers mentioned it, and he said it might do me good to just validate that I am still "attractive", and in the process, would help with the self-esteem issue.
Also, my L has already told me that once D papers are filed, the court really doesn't care about that kind of thing-Texas, imagine that!
As always thanks for the advice.
And I can certainly see those points. They ARE valid. One of the things that helped me was flirting with women each chance I get. Was never going to act on it, but it really helped my self esteem which needed a lot of help at the time.
If you can do the online thing without it getting you into a rendezvous, then probably no problem. But, can you do that?
