I wanted to check in as our sitches are so similar.
I am definitely doing better mood-wise.
DB? I posted over in Infidelity that I just don't see any DB'ing going on for me. NC for how long now? I don't see anything that is going to change our dynamic (or lack thereof!) unless OW suddenly drops dead or something like that.
Feeling like NC is cheeseless tunnel--but while X is involved with OW--what else to do?
DB'ing should feel counter-intuitive--darn it, as I was the remote partner, I really feel that making contact is counter-intuitive--doing the pursuing. Or at least a little.
But the advice all over the board is NC!
What's an independent gal to do?
How was getting through NYE and the rest of the holidays for you?
Taking care of yourself--getting out and keeping busy?
Let me know--
Me: 44 Him: 42 Together: 23 years; never married Bomb: August 1, 2009 Affair since May 2009 Walk away; no conversation; no process
