Everything is so wonderful, I've never been happier and we have such a lovely close R..
If that's true, why are you willing to devote such energy to posting here about how unwell your partner says he is and the limiting behaviours that go with that.
When we are happy it's not work. When we are happy we focus on the abundance that's available to us, rather than what is limited to us (in your musings sex, fun, playfulness, cash). When we are happy we are the calm sea who accepts the gifts the universe delivers without regard for what is still not "right" in our world.
Happy? You sure?
I wonder what it is within you that is prepared to accept that your happiness can be delivered in an environment and relationship that is signficantly less than ideal? Why are you delaying the good and abundant things that are available to you? Stubborness? Pride? Fear?
Why do you think you are unworthy of a relaitonship with a healthy partner who is wholly and fundamentally committed to being a full and equal partner in the emotional and psychological health of your relationship and your potential family?
Life, love, relationships ... the good ones, the ones that contribute to the accomplishment of our own self awareness and self esteem are not difficult. They do not involve making compromises, fixing others or doing more than our 50% of work in our relationships.
And one more thing ... what is it within you that means you deflect rather than reflect on almost anything Naej says to you that doesn't support the track you've convinced yourself is the right one? What do you think that defensive reaction is doing for you? Do you think it's a healthy reaction?
Just sayin' .....
Last edited by Walking; 01/13/1002:08 AM.
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Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.
