Right now, only evidence I have of affair continuing is the one phone call on Friday. And all that doesn't add up in my brain...why not Saturday or Sunday when it was easy and all the time in the world. They used to talk at least once on the weekend when I was around quite a bit?
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Remember though, bad equals good and good equals bad
With that being the case, she should have been in good mood on Friday, not bitchy, correct? So why the bad mood on Fri, sat morning, sat evening, Monday, and today. Four out of the last 5 days since confirmed phone call, bad mood.
Contacting OM's W was the boundary I set, but agree would need to be careful. My evidence isn't overwhelming other than phone records for Oct - Dec. And that is a big step...would cause quite a chain reaction/eruption I think.
Does seeing this one phone call, and then the foul mood afterwards that really has continued now for 4 of last 5 straight days constitute me knowing the affair is still going on? I'm not so sure it does, I know that is what my gut tells me, but enough to confront? Not so sure. So I too am talking in circles and will more than likely do nothing tonight. Treating her as I would a friend, I wouldn't want to throw that baggage at them when they are dealing with a grieving family. As long as something doesn't push me over the edge tonight, will not bring it up.
Last edited by gutwrenching; 01/13/1001:50 AM.
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11
