Sandi - I follow, I like it. Will not do it tonight, wouldn't be quite right...but maybe after being gone for 5 days...sometime next week when things are a little more normal/routine and we both had some time apart to think, change, etc...that would be the right time. And better yet on the phone, I'll leave it at the house...then if she calls, it rings there. That too would be very mysterious for me...with my job, I don't go far without the phone...but a risk I can take for one night, short trip.

Hate to monopolize your time, but did you have a chance to see/think about my question with contact with W while she is on the trip to the funeral?

Thanks again, you are a life saver at times.

Last edited by gutwrenching; 01/13/10 01:18 AM.
M39 W41
Two children
WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09
Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10
No longer piecing...Nov 10
Separation Jan 11
EA ends again Feb 11
Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11