No he's not taking medicine. He stopped taking medicine before we got together and he told me he was diagnosed but it was a wrong diagnosis. But by his behavior and his emotional highs and lows it's not really hard to see that the diagnosis is correct.
I went to visit my brother for new years since we had been fighting. I left my phone so I think that made very angry. I called him the next day to see how he was doing and to tell him that I missed him. He was furious and was yelling and screaming on the phone. Not sure if the fact that I left pushed him over the edge. He didn't want me to come back home but the kids school started calling asking where the kids were or else they would call the city. So I went back home and he was furious.
He remembers everything negative I've done. He is very recentful and to top it off he doesn't forget and let go. He asked me to quit thousands of times to the point where we would fight and I would be driving to work with a massive headache. Not sure if he asked me to work so that I felt forced to leave the house. But I quit and two weeks later he tells me he needs space and that we're done.
When I would work he would send me 1000 texts a day while I was at work. If I didn't reply he would send me pictures of himself crying. He was on a happy fase when we met and got married. But now he's on a depression fase because he doesn't want to see him and says he hates me for not understanding him. I told him if he would have told me the diagnosis was right I would have handled things very differently and would have waited to get together until after I saw his depression and mania fase. He said well now you know.
I can't trust him, I don't know if he'll decide to get up and go out of the blue like he did. He asks me to quit my job and fought endlessly until I did, so that 2 weeks later after my final day he would say "I need space". I have my kids to support and i trusted him! I feel so bad and abandoned. He won't call me, but I've called him several times. I want to talk to get some clarity about what's going on and where are we going with this SPACE. In his facebook he took off married to and has it blank. So to me, it's over. Not sure if I'm overeacting ornot giving him the space he needs. But I feel entitled to at least some clarity on what's going on.
