True Love or True Fog? Changing Forums

[Silver Fox]

Met with a contractor today my L recommended. Nice, easy going guy that spent an hour looking around. He says clean the place up and put it on the market by March 1. Don't spend anything on the foundation, unfinished bathrooms. You never know, someone might buy it as is.

So, he can send some of his workers over to haul off junk, clean the vinyl siding, etc. for about $1,000+. In other words, everything H and I should have been doing for the past 3 years. But oh yeah, H was spending all his time and energy putting himself up the OW's butt.

I sent H an email to let him know about the appt. He writes - "Great, let me know how I can facilitate".

Facilitate? Oh, that's special. Just how is he going to facilitate from 200 miles away?

I was trying to explain the sitch to the contractor. He knows it's a D case. I was skirting around saying my H has "issues" and blah, blah, blah.

Contractor interrupts with "It's a mid-life crisis!"