Still studying. SC has a lot of posts. On a positive note, I had the perfect opportunity to go to the house, access the computer and spy, but I did not. I realized that I already know about the affair as she has admitted it and any info I find may be true or false. She has lied to me, herself, and others; she has also told the truth. So which would I find through snooping? I don't know and it is not worth finding something that will upset me more if the chances of it being a lie is 50%. If I am angry I would confront her and that would just set me back further.
Me 33 WAW 32 S12 S4 S2 M12 T14 Not wanting to ever give up.