Tom why are you not heeding the list of 180's? You give her a card for the anniversary of your first date! That is a no-no. That makes you look like a "sister" mister.
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I made a comment that she abruptly cut our talk short last night and that it was rude
And when you made this comment, did you not think it would lead to a R talk?
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because I was getting lonely and need some people to talk to.
Does this sound like a strong, self-confident man? Do you think she is going to swoon over you when you talk like that? She will never be attracted to a pathetic sounding whimp, if that's what you are trying to be. You don't want her to feel "sorry" for you, you want her to be crazy about you!
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I am not sure if that is a break in the armor or a warning that she will hook up with someone once the LS papers are behind us
Well, if you have to have it spelled out to you.....it's not a crack in the armor!
Tom, get yourself to a doctor and to a lawyer ASAP!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
