Looking for help with WAW

[sandi2]

mza, I think you may be wanting to email her b/c you are acting out of emotions and that is not a good thing. Take at least a couple of days to think it through.

I will reinforce that I do not want this separation and do not want the D.

Not a good idea. It will make you look either controlling or needy. She already knows that you don't want a S or D, so why "reinforce" it?

I will tell her that I am sorry that she is unwilling to work on our marriage at this time.

Why? What good would it do to tell her "you" are the one sorry for how "she" feels? Makes no sense. Puts you at a disadvantage and makes you look weak.

I will not understand why she chose to run from this marriage but that is her decision.

All of this is R talk and you are suppose to stay away from it.

I will tell her that I am moving on/forward with my life and that I wish her the best and then I will say my goodbye.

You've contradicted yourself b/c you have just reinforced that you do not want a S or D, so she won't believe this part.

I strongly advise not to email her unless it is about finances. Stay away from R talk.