this right here makes sense that your H is taking long.

remember what they say about a M being in trouble, and that it takes so many months for each year? Well, I'm thinking, because you chased for so long, a whole year, there are a lot of us I think that found DB way sooner than a year. I found it in a month. So I had a month of chasing, maybe not even that long.

So, this makes a whole lot more sense to me.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."