Hey, undrdg, good to hear from you. I agree with dday, it's a chance, but while she's waffling don't be her puppet. Learn to live with yourself and enjoy it!

Ron

M: 47
W: 50
D: 19
S: 16
Grandson: 21 months (now officially our son)
Married: 10/2/89
Divorced: 7/31/09
XW moved back home 11/12
Re-married 5/25/10