Originally Posted By: bradley11

I'm working on that-- head is swimming though... need to get back into my own head space...


Slow down and breathe.....

I see you reading and posting some really great things here....

When are you actually taking the time to ABSORB them ?

That is when that down time is so crucial to YOU....

I know it sux being away from your boys.....but veiw this as an oppurtunity to think, learn, and grow into the person you want/need to be.

I know its hard to imagine, but ask anyone here posting to you if they would trade this experience for anything....

Everyone of them here would probably say no, regardless of the hardware on their left hand........

At first, I wouldn't have wished this on my worst enemy, because of the pain....

Now ? I wouldn't wish it on him because I wouldn't want him to know what I know, and be the man that I have become.....

When YOU can view this as a blessing instead of being the victim, that is when healing begins......