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[mishka422]

I completely understand where you are coming from on that one BBJ. A C is an excellent next step. You need to work through your own feelings and get an objective person in front of you guiding your thoughts so that you don't ramble around in your own head and lose focus.

An intact family and what the kids would like are not reasons to stay in a M full of insecurity, infidelity, and lies. That is no example of a healthy R to show your kids, right? Dan has had 12 years to be a man and has chosen poorly throughout all of them. You just listed those choices he made (that you know of) above. Stop trying to sweep them under with "yeah, but" statements in your own mind, ok? There really is no justification for any of it.