Looking for Advice

[gutwrenching]

Sandi - crud, one more, I wish I could combine some of my posts so there wouldn't be so many. BUt I keep thinking about the ice cream cone idea and there very well could be that opportunity tonight, hard to say, but if there is, what a perfect time to create mystery, right before she leaves on a trip. Normally, I would never go do something like that w/o asking her if she wants something. But am I right to assume that I should not ask her, I should just leave. And if she calls to ask me where I left for, and I tell her, do I then ask if she wants something also? I wish I had the energy and thougts to do that last night, it was about 2 degrees outside with snow on ground, but I was so emotionally drained that I didn't have much left in the tank.