Cardiac opportunity will surely come around again in the future, but for now, I would move mountains to be near my kids and possibly have an opportunity to save my marriage.
this is actually not exactly true... once you give it up, you sortof give it up. its a bit of a bridge burner...
but I think I'm going to do it no matter what... but its going to be a space killer for w and it will make her unhappy since I will be there in town and now everyone will know, particularly if I am living somewhere else, that we have real problems... something she is happily hiding for now.. to some.
