Well I for one could use a trip to the UK - have a dear friend in London as well. Money is the only issue ......
I read this on another post, and thought of you, "Jody" is aDB coach (another thing I wish I had money for!)
I'm reminded of what Jody told me about the stages: "Once you get to a point where you are piecing, you will find yourself very angry w/your significant other because you were the one who was working so hard to save the marriage. When you get here, remember to step back and take a break or you'll end up taking it out on the person you are trying to make things work with."