Originally Posted By: SmileysPerson
6 months ago -- hell, 3 months ago -- if you had told me we'd be fighting over the kids, I'd have said you were nuts (no offense, @nutfarmer! laugh ).
None taken...I'm all about my nuts grin .

Originally Posted By: SmileysPerson

"I will be there at 6:30."

To which I responded, "You can be anywhere you like at 6:30. I won't be there. I don't know where the kids will be. Tonight is your custody night, so I'm sure you'll figure something out."

And off she went to the attorney.
That's OK. Hopefully her attorney will remind her of her responsibilities. The worst thing that will happen is at 6:00 you'll get a call from the day-care. They'll charge you $1-$2 a minute for every minute you are late. You can present that bill to STBX or give it to your attorney to be forwarded to hers.

You know, in your place I would take as much custody of the children as I could get...up to and including 100%. I know you're worried about the damage that might do to the kids, but I wonder about the damage she might do to the kids.

Nut(s)