One thing that my W and I both regret is not trying to find a second MC after the first failed miserably. I think we both look back now and believe that had we had a different/better MC that things may have turned out much differently. You may want to approach your W with the suggestion of trying a different counselor. Let her know that you believe that these issues need to be addressed and let her know what the consequences will be if not addressed. Perhaps she will be more open in counseling if she knows what the alternative is.
