What can I do to save my marriage? Help

[Ready2Change]

Guess what, you did what you were supposed to do.
...Fear of loss....Crisis.
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Don't discount your recent efforts - without them you wouldn't have the positive momentum in the direction you're going in now.

You're not out of the woods yet either, not by a long shot.

I feel Robx is very insightful. Slowly read his post again.