I totally hear you. Very insightful posts above. I've been doing a lot of thinking as well about everything. It makes a lot of sense for me too to just keep things the way they are - I get S full time and in H's situation too, I really want him to have the least interaction as possible with him (or at least only under my or my MIL's eyes). It's just so tough though, dealing with S, dealing with the money situation, etc. I admire your positive outlook though and ability to find the happiness in your life, despite the tough situation. This is power for you though - the ability to let go of H but not the marriage and all the while finding the happiness in a life that does not revolve around H. Very empowering!
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
