P, I absolutely value and cherish you, Cutter, Ravenly, Daybyday and others who take the time to either cheer me on or question what I'm doing! I just worry that you'll lose patience with me or think I'm ignoring your advice if I choose to not implement it. BUT I ALWAYS consider it!!It makes me think! gotta run for now!! (((DB Forum)))
No need to worry. We're not losing patience at all. Just, as Cutter said, asking some questions in the hope that you ask yourself with them. If you are happy with the answers then that's all that's needed!
As for what you said to Cutter about Plan B - both of us are there and I wouldn't recommend it to anybody unless there were simply no choices left, or, in my case, they couldn't handle the situation. I wouldn't push anybody into Plan B as it either fixes or kills your M.
I don't think Plan B is actually a good choice for you until it's clear Plan A isn't going to work. And I don't think you're at that stage, as you said.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
