Originally Posted By: luvless
I really don't know what to do guys when he gets back. It's going to be so awkward tomorrow when I pick him up. I know I need to stay positive for me and not let him get to me - any extra suggestions are welcome.


It seems to me that is the best reason to stay positive: because he expects to get a tongue-lashing when you pick him up.

Treat him like you're picking up a co-worker or a family friend. Be polite, ask some questions about his trip, and don't say a word about him not calling. See what happens.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."