What can I do to save my marriage? Help

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Robx,

Thanks for the thoughts. I really thought I screwed up, but I see your points. Being a masculine man with boundaries who will protect her is what she wants. You were right all along. I will follow your advice it has been spot on thus far. I texted her to go to lunch with me today and she accepted, but it doesn't look like I will get out because the cases are overbooked. Anyway, she isn't rejecting me now. I think sex is a long way off tho...